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Sunday, June 17, 2007
Kevin McCullough :: Townhall.com Columnist
Why Feminists Fear Fathers
by Kevin McCullough
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Feminists cower in fear at the picture, the symbol, and the meaning of a strong father today. Actually atheists, Marxists, leftists, and liberals all do as well but with feminists it’s a particularly pronounced phenomenon. What a strong father represents to this time, life, and world has never been more underestimated and modern feminists have taken it upon themselves to attempt to eliminate the need for them all together.

It was one year ago this month, I sat in a hotel room in Denver before a major book seller's convention. I was preparing for a series of interviews slated that day for the pre-release of MuscleHead Revolution. As I was getting ready Fox News Channel's Gretchen Carlson came on the screen to explain how science had developed the possibility of a world without men. She promised that after the break Dr. Manny Alvarez would explain how researchers had discovered a way to create sperm like cells from another female that would successfully eliminate the need for male participation in the conception of children. She ended her tease, "imagine a world without men!"

I fell into a chair nearby and verbally asked, "Why would we want to?"

God intended fathers to play a particularly important role in the lives of their families. It is the traditional understanding of that role that modern feminists are fearful of.

God intended a father to perform two primary functions in his responsibilities for his family: provision and protection.

It is a truly manly attribute to go out and toil, to work, to provide for the sustaining means that a family is dependent upon to survive. This is not a reflection upon mothers who also have skills and who choose to work. It is no reflection upon their abilities to contribute to the prosperity of the home in general. But it is incumbent for clarity's sake to understand that the father was designed to do this. God made men physically stronger - and for many generations the need for stronger bodies with larger muscles, and thicker bones was for the express purpose of hard labor. Because men can not become pregnant and were not designed by their maker to carry unborn children within them it also seems logical that God intended them to be the steady partner of the home to work the non-stop calendar. As technology has changed the means by which provision is earned has also changed, but the designed intention of fathers has not.

It is a moral and right thing for a man in his truest essence to commit himself to being the breadwinning provider for his home. Any man who seeks the hand of a woman in marriage who is not prepared for this responsibility should not be granted that honor. Because he is not yet truly a man. And women do themselves a tremendous disservice when they are willing to tie themselves down to such a slacker.

God also designed that same physical strength in a man for the purpose of protecting one's family. In more crude times such protection was very physical and the threats were very real. Beastly predators both man and animal caused the father to take on the necessary skepticism, awareness, and wisdom that would serve as a bulwark, literally shielding his family from the horrors that awaited. With today's technology protecting one's family is easier, but no less important. Fathers can and should take all precaution necessary to know who their children are spending time with - online and in person, what curriculum the local school board is planning on teaching, and even as a general rule of thumb - something as simple as being the one to answer the door at night when an unannounced guests rings the bell.

There was a time when etiquette was actually developed from the idea of serving as one's shield. For instance it is always proper for the man to walk on the side of the woman where the greatest possibility of danger may approach. Thus when parading down a street-side walk the man should walk closest to traffic - in the event that a car was to jump the curb the man would thus absorb the blow and possibly save the woman's life.

Opening doors, allowing women to proceed in front of them, assisting a woman up a flight of stairs, across a busy street, or escorting them to their side of an automobile are also simple symbolic gestures of manly protection.

Feminists will argue that all of this shows a sign of inequality and lack of respect for mothers and daughters. They couldn't be more wrong. Such actions show a deeply humble respect and an expression of sacrifice for someone deeply loved and appreciated. Continued...

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Kevin McCullough's first hardback title "The MuscleHead Revolution: Overturning Liberalism with Commonsense Thinking" is now available. He blogs at www.muscleheadrevolution.com.

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Subject: Oh, and while we are on it...
I support gay marriage too! Oooo- scary...

I'm too busy working, taking care of my own life, job, house, body, mind, enjoying my family, friends, pets, etc. to find some obscure reason to care. I work with some lovely individuals who are gay and are too busy doing the same things I'm doing to care- being responsible, productive adults. We are having a life... maybe you should try having one also.

Comments from a Strong- Left Feminist
Wow, this is really scary- well, at least knowing that there are people that buy this story is scary.

I'm a hard, left-wing feminist who is almost bra-burning, and proud of it. I have a fabulous career in a Fortune 50 company, and am going strong.

I am also super-girly, and married to a great man. One of the many reasons I choose him is because I knew he would be a great father. He is quite assertive in his opinion, brilliant, a leader at work, and very supportive of me- in any capacity. I can't imagine having kids alone, and think everyone should think long and hard about who they marry, pick someone you'll be thrilled to be with forever, stay together and provide a stable, happy home for their children. I'm not a big fan of day care, I believe they should have home-cooked meals as much as possible and wives should be a supportive partner in the household (stress- partner).

I think as a feminist I can do whatever I want. I like everybody and cannot understand why there is any debate over which sex should be superior to the other?

You people must lead a sad, sad life. Too bad, because it is so easy to have a happy one if you could just spent time on something else.
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