Remember self-esteem? It was one of the sillier - and more dangerous - fads
in educational circles, which keep going round and round. The theory was
that promoting kids' self-esteem was going to convince them they were great.
And it just might. But that's no guarantee they are great.
On the contrary, this kind of psychological scam could have the opposite
effect. Having been told how well they're doing throughout their
well-insulated school years, these kids could be in for the shock of their
nice, cushioned lives when they're thrown into the real world. And discover
that their education wasn't so great after all. Or that a better word for it
might be shoddy. The realization might be so crushing they'd just give up.
Some of us had hoped this fad had come and gone. It had. But now it's come
back. Bad ideas apparently never die; they just go underground for a while.
There they lurk, like an infection, waiting to crop up again in the
strangest places. As in a statement from Arkansas' new governor, Mike Beebe.
Governor Beebe came out against schools' sending reports home about
overweight kids lest we hurt their "self-esteem." What kind of a report?
It's called a body-mass index, which measures how fat or skinny a kid
is-based on factors like height, weight, age and sex.
Why be concerned about kids' weight? Because obesity is a real problem in
this country. It saps kids' mental and physical development, and can lead to
serious problems down the road-like diabetes, stroke and heart attacks.
Overweight kids are also prime candidates for psychological disorders like
anorexia and bulimia. Adolescents are notoriously sensitive about their
appearance and their peers' opinion of it. The teasing that fatties get in
school can be cruel - and lead them to do dangerous things.
A simple report from school about a child's weight might get parents'
attention, or even move them to do something about their kid's dietary
habits or lack of exercise. It's worth a try. We check kids' eyesight and
hearing, don't we? Why not their physical fitness?
Because we're told it would hurt their self-esteem. Well, some kids have
entirely too much self-esteem already. A geometry teacher I once knew had a
phrase for it: climbing Fool's Hill. The tumble down can be painful. Are
teachers even allowed to say such things any more? Or has it been decided
that folk wisdom is psychologically impairing, too?
Some of these kids may be all et up with self-esteem, but they're woefully
short on self-respect, which is quite another thing. Self-respect flows from
self-discipline and the real achievement it leads to. It doesn't depend on
psychological gamesmanship.
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