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Monday, February 05, 2007
Down With Self-Esteem
By Paul Greenberg
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Remember self-esteem? It was one of the sillier - and more dangerous - fads in educational circles, which keep going round and round. The theory was that promoting kids' self-esteem was going to convince them they were great. And it just might. But that's no guarantee they are great.

On the contrary, this kind of psychological scam could have the opposite effect. Having been told how well they're doing throughout their well-insulated school years, these kids could be in for the shock of their nice, cushioned lives when they're thrown into the real world. And discover that their education wasn't so great after all. Or that a better word for it might be shoddy. The realization might be so crushing they'd just give up.

Some of us had hoped this fad had come and gone. It had. But now it's come back. Bad ideas apparently never die; they just go underground for a while. There they lurk, like an infection, waiting to crop up again in the strangest places. As in a statement from Arkansas' new governor, Mike Beebe.

Governor Beebe came out against schools' sending reports home about overweight kids lest we hurt their "self-esteem." What kind of a report? It's called a body-mass index, which measures how fat or skinny a kid is-based on factors like height, weight, age and sex.

Why be concerned about kids' weight? Because obesity is a real problem in this country. It saps kids' mental and physical development, and can lead to serious problems down the road-like diabetes, stroke and heart attacks.

Overweight kids are also prime candidates for psychological disorders like anorexia and bulimia. Adolescents are notoriously sensitive about their appearance and their peers' opinion of it. The teasing that fatties get in school can be cruel - and lead them to do dangerous things.

A simple report from school about a child's weight might get parents' attention, or even move them to do something about their kid's dietary habits or lack of exercise. It's worth a try. We check kids' eyesight and hearing, don't we? Why not their physical fitness?

Because we're told it would hurt their self-esteem. Well, some kids have entirely too much self-esteem already. A geometry teacher I once knew had a phrase for it: climbing Fool's Hill. The tumble down can be painful. Are teachers even allowed to say such things any more? Or has it been decided that folk wisdom is psychologically impairing, too?

Some of these kids may be all et up with self-esteem, but they're woefully short on self-respect, which is quite another thing. Self-respect flows from self-discipline and the real achievement it leads to. It doesn't depend on psychological gamesmanship. Continued...

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Sending a note home telling parents
that their kids are fat...

Excuse me, but if they haven't noticed, perhaps the kids are in more serious trouble than being overweight.

My opinion about the obesity of children has to do with the fact that all the mommies and daddies are off at work.

If the kiddies are lucky, they have a housekeeper to come home to instead of an empty house. A housekeeper who never made it past the 6th grade, and barely knows English, who feeds them Mexican food, which is tasty, but not known to be diet food.

Or they come home and no one is there. They flip on the tube, and see a commercial for bite sized pizza snacks wit dippin' sauce. Yum! They eat the whole box. What's for dessert? Ice cream? Mom's not here, and she will be too tired to care if it is all gone.

How can one feel lonely and empty if Cap'n Crunch is around to drown one's sorrows?

Report Card on BMI
I agree that teachers should not send home this kind of report, but for completely different reasons than the good Governor.

Number one, the government is too deep into my personal private life already and I do not need them telling me my kids are fat.

Number two, sending a report home about how fat Jonny or Janey is will not hurt his or her already low self-esteem, their peers will do that for them. And their parents will re-inforce the behavior which got them there in the first place.

Which brings me back to number one; In a truly abusive situation, parental rights will be terminated and the children placed in the proper care. Government intrusiveness is not going to prevent bad situations from occurring. We do not want or need a government that tells us we are raising our children wrong, according to someone else's idea of right and wrong.
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