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Supporting the Troops - And Their Children - On Memorial Day
by Dr. Paul Kengor
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When it comes to “supporting the troops,” some Americans have chosen some curious means of expression. Who can forget Senator Dick Durbin’s (D-IL) June 2005 statement from the Senate floor, comparing U.S. troops at Guantanamo to “Nazis, Soviets in their gulags, or some mad regime—Pol Pot or others—that had no concern for human beings?”

More recently, bestselling fiction writer Stephen King, reminiscent of Senator John Kerry (D-MA) back in 2006, was inspired to underscore the alleged ignorance of our servicemen: If you can’t read, explained King, “you’ve got the Army, Iraq … something like that.” When criticized for his remarks, King reflexively responded with the standard liberal mantra: he angrily denounced those who dare question his patriotism. Gee, why would anyone do that?

Alas, for a genuine example of truly supporting the troops, few expressions are as innovative and moving as a new book by Kathleen Edick and Paula J. Johnson, titled, "We Serve Too! A Child’s Deployment Book." Packed with colorful illustrations and heartwarming, practical messages, this is the first book I’ve seen that is addressed to those who love the troops more than any of us: the children of our enlisted men overseas.

The book is rich in the virtues honored by the men who have fought for America for over 200 years. “Daddy’s unit was deployed, his work is far away; and though we are not overjoyed, a soldier must obey,” reads one passage. “The Army said we couldn’t go and Dad said, ‘Stay right here, and wait for me ‘til I get back in just about a year.’”

Another reads: “My mama needs a hug tonight; she’d like one from my dad. I’ll give her one for both of us, so she won’t be sad. And now I snuggle down to sleep. Oh, mama, tuck me tight. Snug me up like Daddy’s hug, we’ll all sleep tight tonight.”

These pages are primarily about helping children (and even their moms) cope with the absence of their dad. At the end of the book, however, one finds something for dad as well: a removable insert of suggestions for the kids for their father, beginning with a long list under the heading, “Send a Box of Things to Daddy.” The insert concludes with this wisdom: “Choose a special prayer to pray together before Dad leaves, and talk about how you will both continue that connection of prayer as long as he is away.” And in case that prayer doesn’t come easy, Edick and Johnson have composed one:

I pray my Daddy
will be strong;
that time away
will not be long.
I pray, dear Lord,
be close to him.
On every mission,
go with him.
While we at home
stay strong and true;
help us to love and trust
in You.
Amen.

The closing prayer is a nice touch that echoes back to the Patrick Henry quote at the start of the book: “The battle does not belong to the strong alone, but to the vigilant, the active, and the brave.” Continued...

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Dr. Paul Kengor, author of spiritual biographies of Ronald Reagan and George W. Bush, has just published God and Hillary Clinton and The Judge: William P. Clark, Ronald Reagan's Top Hand. He is a professor of political science and executive director of the Center for Vision & Values at Grove City College.

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Subject: I'm glad these
women didn't cave to pc when publishers turned them down! I hope they will sell MILLIONS. Today's military is so lucky. I'm very envious.

They and their families have all kinds of resources available. The best thing is the internet. They have instant contact with their loved ones. Now with computer cameras, kids can see and talk to their parent no matter how far away they are. My husband and I went over a month without contact in 1963-64. Do you have any idea of the thoughts that rear their ugly heads in that span of time?

He was on board the Bon Homme Richard aircraft carrier in the far east. The only contact we had was snail mail and for more than a month their mission was secret. That meant no mail in and no mail out. The internet is a real blessing for the military and their families.

Also a blessing is Paula Johnson and Kathleen Edick. People like them are speaking up and because of the internet they are being heard. That didn't happen in 1963-64, I thought I was all alone. Don't misunderstand me, I knew what I was signing up for when I enlisted and then when I married a lifer, but it sure would have been nice to know that there were some out there that supported me and mine.

I would definitely do it all over again, I love this country!

The Children
It was an outstanding thing these two people did in writing that book. Kids are the worst hit by war; either as physical casualties or, in the emotional sense, as the sons and daughters of soldiers. They need to understand, as best they can, why Daddy needs to leave them and face mortal danger in a faraway land. They also need the moral support that we give (or should give!) to their uniformed parent.

And just where is that support? How often to public figures come out to greet them as their fathers board their aircraft for deployment? What newsmen profile them... except to use them as tools in their anti-war agendas? What celebrity children take time out from their often R-rated activities to talk with them or even just write to them? Or is it too much of a career killer to even indirectly associate with the children of the troops?

Only the veterans of the WWII and Korea generation remember such things. And that is a terrible indictment of American culture.
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