Life is strange. That's not an original observation, since life keeps
demonstrating just how strange it is. Consider the life and saving times of
Joseph Daniel McQuany, 1928-2007. Mr. McQuany, who became much better known
as just Joe here in Little Rock, was one of the most successful people I've
ever heard of.
Joe touched, indeed transformed, the lives of who knows how many tens of
thousands in this country and beyond. He started an enterprise on a
shoestring or less - a $330 grant and some charitable donations - that grew
into a publishing company, traveling mission, growing institution and, most
important, a blessing.
The secret of his success? "If I hadn't been an alcoholic," he confided to
one of the many groups he addressed, "I probably would have amounted to
nothing."
And all because one day back in 1962, Joe McQuany decided he'd get sober. In
those days, he'd later recall, white men trying get on the wagon could find
a treatment program, black men were sent to the State Hospital - aka the Nut
House in the patois of the times - and as for women alcoholics, the only
place for them was jail.
Once detoxed courtesy of the State of Arkansas, Joe McQuany knew he'd have
to find some way to stay sober. His way was Alcoholic Anonymous. Even though
in those days, as a black man, he was left out of the social bonding that's
such an important if informal part of AA. No matter. He had the Twelve
Steps, AA's version of the Ten Commandments, and the Big Book. A testament
and faith. What more does a natural leader need? Build on those two rocks
and the people will come.
Soon the man was organizing AA groups himself. He was a whiz at it. Not only
because he'd been there and knew the cravings and excuses, the real
desperation and false exhilaration of it all, but maybe because to save
himself he had to save others.
Joe McQuany wound up founding an offshoot of AA himself. He called his
program Serenity House before it had a house - an old one on Broadway here
in Little Rock. As his program grew, he moved it to larger and larger
quarters.
Serenity House became Serenity Park - an extended-care sanctuary for all,
black or white, penniless or professional, who needed to break their drug
habit. You might be surprised at the nice, outwardly successful people who
are chemically dependent slaves. Then again, if you've had much experience
of the world, you probably wouldn't be.
Mainly people came to Serenity House not because of the books Joe McQuany
would write, or lectures he would give, or the programs he devised, but
because of Joe himself. To quote one of his co-workers and admirers - but I
repeat myself - his soft, unjudging brown eyes would connect with the souls
of others. Joe seemed to look past all the superficialities that separate us
one from another, and see the essential creature within, sinner man.
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